Facing an unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming, especially when people around you have strong opinions about what you should do. Pressure—whether subtle or direct—can make it hard to separate what you truly want from what others are telling you.
If you feel like someone is pushing you toward abortion, recognizing the signs of pressure is the first step to regaining a clear understanding of what you want for yourself and your future.
At Abria, we provide a safe and confidential space where you can discuss your situation openly and receive accurate information about your options—without judgment or pressure.
When Conversations Feel One-Sided
If you try to bring up parenting or adoption and the other person ignores, dismisses, or gets frustrated, but they are supportive when abortion comes up, this may be a form of pressure.
Over time, these kinds of reactions can cause you to doubt yourself and question what you really want.
Support That Comes with Strings Attached
Sometimes, support is only offered if you choose abortion. For example, a partner, friend, or family member may offer money, transportation, or help with logistics for an abortion but withdraw support if you consider another path.
This imbalance can be manipulative, indicating that the focus is on their preference rather than your well-being.
Using Control or Threats
If someone threatens to withhold emotional, financial, or relational support unless you agree to an abortion, that crosses the line into coercion. In serious cases, pressure can escalate to verbal abuse or even physical harm.
If you feel unsafe, reach out for help right away. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 800-799-7233.
Your Decision, Your Future
Even when pressure comes from people who care about you, their reactions may be influenced by fear, stress, or personal circumstances. But ultimately, you are the one who will live with the outcome of your decision. You deserve to make it freely, with accurate information and support you can trust.
Abria offers no-cost pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, and confidential options consultations. These services provide you with the facts you need, allowing you to move forward with confidence and peace of mind.
Schedule your appointment today. You are not alone—and you deserve the time, space, and support to make a decision that’s truly yours.